Never, EVER, *assume* this. Mindreading, LBS, 15 yard penalty. (And don't necessarily believe if she says it word for word, either.)
Hang in there. This is the hardest period to get through for a lot of folks. Do some self-care, do some GAL and go be with people who love you and support you.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
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