jeez. you like sex. good for you. it means you are ALIVE.
180 the things like letting him walk all over you. like passively watching your marriage and life go down the tubes. like sitting at home doing nothing. dont 180 your sexual appetite. you 69 that.
you didnt ask me, but i say starting testing him now. you have waited 2 years already. start kicking butt.
I suggest create the illusion that you have moved on with your life. (if you are financially strapped sure sell the house before it goes into foreclosure) but otherwise stay and just treat him like a gay friend and let him see first hand that you are moving on and upward and you are going out with who knows who and who knows where. and you are smiling and he dont know why.
you are the leading role in the film, 'heather's new life' and you can write the script as you please. date if you want. dont if you dont want to. that is completely up to you, not us, not your husband. just create this part that makes him realize what he is missing. then give him the BOMB. I'm not in love with you anymore. he will be on this site asking advice, telling us he ignored his wife, didnt meet her needs, now she is gone, how do i get her back.
