I do feel better b/c even though this friend isn't physcially his type(as he said I would see)..I could see an EA there on his side...I think this friend though wouldn't let anything go that far..she seems pretty solid.

The thing that "sticks in my craw" is that H wants to do things/activities and has fun doing things with others, but won't do the same things with me. I know "I'm the problem" in his mind but it still stings.

So TF...how about finding just 15 minutes here or there to do something YOU want to do...? sometimes that indulgence helps me...I took a long bath a few weeks ago(I do shower daily smile ) but I soaked for awhile with candles lit and it was great. Felt recharged afterwards.

just a thought. Hope your weekend is nice and "grump-free"!
grin


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.