Originally Posted By: tryingtilDorR
In fact, the last time we got into a R talk (lasted about 60 seconds) she said that "Maybe things would have been OK if you hadn't TOLD everyone"


Yeah, right! She cheated on you, and she's blaming you for things not being OK? That sounds about par for a cheating spouse!

A response like "maybe things would have been OK if you hadn't cheated on me and lied about it" would have been appropriate!


"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.