Thanks TF and Grace.

I am glad I went. I, too, saw the irony of HS/FB not wanting to be in my shoes. She also told my of my H's best friend in highschool who has now been divorced for about 13 years after his wife was caught cheating. HS/FB friend said she couldn't imagine how awful that must've been, but this friend of H's has become a recluse of sorts..very sad. So I don't think H has told HS/FB friend ANYTHING about what we've been through this last year...

It is very sad about my colleague being murdered. He hadn't worked with me in years, but I went to pharmacy school with his ex-wife and its a pretty small-knit community in pharmacy. Just very, very tragic.

Today H is seemingly in a fog. A bit grouchy..irritable. I'm at work a bit today, so we'll see if his mood improves by the time I get home. Not sure if his mood has to do with the girls wanting to get the Christmas tree up and our old one not fitting in our new smaller townhome. D12 and I went to buy a smaller tree and will donate our old one. H didn't want to help pick out the new one but of course he hated the one we got(too skinny).. but it fits much better in our space! Arghhhhhh

I'm ready to take a break from this rollercoaster! :-))


M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.