Oh, and congrats on the new outfit and gear. Now go enjoy yourself at the party. If there are guys there... make sure you talk to ALL of them.
One more thing: I reply, "no problem, I get it. talk to ya later." Remove any phrases of you initiating contact from your vocabulary. You let him flirt, talk to you, etc...
From now on you DO NOT indicate any interest in him or his problems. If he want to cry on your shoulder for anything, you change the subject. You don't care about him or his feelings anymore. Remember... You couldn't care less about a whiny, snivelly little boy who hasn't got balls and abandons his bride. Besides, you've got options. Your mind is focused somewhere else.
Last edited by Gnosis; 11/28/0910:35 PM. Reason: Added paragraph
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT