I think you're modeling my wife as the typical cheated-on wife, and that is not going to help you solve the problem.
I think maybe you meant "solve the problem" as in "understand the situation," but it still bears saying that we aren't going to solve your problem. That's impossible. You are going to solve it. Or not.
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She buys me Playboy calendars for Christmas and she doesn't mind me going to strip clubs. That is a thoughtful touch on her part, but I can also see that it helps take the "pressure" off of her. But it also makes me wish she were more jealous for my sexual attention. Does that sound like someone who is upset that I might show interest in other women?
None of those things are permission to have an affair, no. None of those things mean she wouldn't be upset to know that you're sleeping around. Have you asked her?
