How do you deal with this pain, over and over again? How can someone be so cold to someone they used to love so much...
By detatching, plain and simple. "Retain faith that you will prevail, regardless of the difficulties, and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be." Detatch. The fact is, they CAN be "so cold" to someone they used to love. It's hard to understand, so don't bother trying. Just realize they 'can' and do. Stop trying to control something that you have no control over. Detatch. Work on you. Become better and stronger, in every way you can. Regardless of how things turn out, by becoming better and stronger, you will be better off afterwards. Make sense?
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
