Just thought of something else. What if, there is no OM, and she sees her friend living her life without a man, and thinks she will be fine? What boundaries can I set if she isn't cheating? The only thing I can think of is the going out late. Now I have confused myself with this. Well, maybe it is the cake eater scenario. She wants the benefits of being M without the responsibility-well, I think that is a big part of it anyway. I am setting a boundary next month with the money, but any ideas for any other boundaries I can set?
"embrace the suck" - Coach "don't go all "Melty Man" on us" - Puppy Let Go and Let God Finally "Got It" - 15 Jan 2010
