Can I save my marriage?

[Gnosis]

You slipped with this: I said, You want to bring him here?
But recovered well with: no, I may not be here. I'll just call you around one thirty

I kind of wanted to make it look as if I didn't want him coming to the house.
I don't think he would have read it like this.

Here's what you do:

1) Pick a spot outside a fancy restaurant for the drop off point.
2) Get yourself dressed REAL smart, sassy and elegant to make it look like you're going to the restaurant.
3) Collect the kid from him there. Say, "Thanks, I can take it from here." or something similar. Cut all other communication with, "I don't have time for this right now. You can leave." and you wait for him to leave.
4) Leave or not: take the kid and go into the restaurant. Ask to use the bathroom, then for a glass of water or something. Try stay there for as long as possible and then leave.

This will BLOW his mind because he won't know if you're having lunch with someone or if you've just had lunch...

Do this and I'll continue to coach you.