Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Also, my W found a Female friend, Divorced with B12, working at same place W does. They have become very good friends, and go out together all the time. At least that is what W tells my boys, and family. I think friend is telling her things, etc. Not sure how to deal with that, as I dont want to try control who she is friends with, but if that friend is a cancer to our M, then I take that personal. Thoughts?