K I get your point. We DO have two different situations.
So I decided to up the anti, this morning in our little text convo, H asked to bring S3 up to the house to drop him off for the party.
I said, You want to bring him here?
He said, Ya, if that's easiest.
I stalled, then wrote well no, I may not be here. I'll just call you around one thirty.
I kind of wanted to make it look as if I didn't want him coming to the house. That it would be best to meet in a controlled environment. Did I do okay? Or did it not even come off that way? I tried to sound mysterious about not wanting him to come here!
M: 31 H: 29 Married: 6 yrs Children : 7yr old, 5yr old, 2yr old
Separated: Sept. '09 Moved Back In for wrong reasons: Nov. 30, 09 Recomitted to our Marriage: Jan. 25, 10 Threatening to leave again: July,14