Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Antlers, 100% agree. I tried all that when she dropped the bomb. I have been pretty much NC for the past 6-8 weeks. Doesn't seem to be having any effect. Although, she has indicated curiosity about where I am taking the boys, then told me a lie about her speaking to her M coming to Texas to visit. I spoke to her brother, he said he had just gotten off phone with M, she had no idea what my W as talking about-she hadn't spoken to her in 3 weeks. My W has all but cut off her Family, she used to call her M 3-4 times a week, now it is weeks, and then just a message. Her F has told her she is crazy, but she isn't listening. Is there any hope for me and my marriage? Thanks.