How did your Thanksgiving go? Did your H end up joining you to eat some of that delicious food (if you do say so yourself :))?
I guess it is a matter of keeping that hope in and in check. I do get a bit excited by some of the things I have seen/heard the past few weeks but have to check myself from slipping back into the "wifely" me. And I am getting to the point where I don't get disappointed anymore, or at least not more than minimally so. I have to say, seeing the real H helps me realize that love for him is still there. There have been so many days in the past 3-4 months or so that I have wondered.