Can I save my marriage?

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I know, I cried all morning. Then I decided to do something about it. So I shoveled the driveway(it snowed last night), and then I put out my xmas decorations on my front step. Now I'm tidying up. I can't be completely down as I do get to take my S3 to a birthday party today. H and I decided I would take him and he would take care of S1.

So H text me a while ago asking what time to drop him off.

I told him I would let him know where I'm at at that time (2:00 today) and we'd figure it out then.

He said okay, then brought up the cd he snatched. Saying thanks its a good one.

It obviously bothered him I didn't mention a thing.

I didn't want to give him the satisfaction that I noticed, and sure enough he had to bring it up then.

I said no problem I missed a few songs on it anyways and made a new one today.

He said well good, I'll just take that one too.

I said you won't be able to after I take the keys to the truck, then he has no way in to get it.

He didn't say much, just that he would see me soon.

Its just constant flirting. I don't know how to take it. I don't know how to respond. Especially when he says he'll see me in a bit, three times, like he's excited to see me. Nervous again, as I just quite can't pick up this whole DB'ing thing and what to do when I pick up S3 and then drop him off after the party?? Then tomorrow we have "family time" again as S3 has a play he has to perform in church tomorrow morning...