McQueen, Not sure I follow you? I was contacted by OM spouse with all of the evidence, and am gratefull that someone was on the ball, and confronted it. I contacted OM who verified evidence, but denied anything physical. I still don’t buy it. There is more I'm sure, Both OM and wife lied to me about secret contact, cell phones ect... Can’t believe anything unless I see it myself. Wife is still on the fence with regard to remorse, justification for actions, ect..back and forth with her emotions with regard to “it was just a friendship".
i am asking now that you got "the phone call" and found out the truth through a "third party," would you recommend to others who know the truth that they should pick up the phone and call the OP's spouse and let them know also? do you feel this is the appropriate method to disclose to the other person's spouse?
Last edited by Steve McQueen; 11/28/0906:27 PM. Reason: spelling
