That it keeps your hopes up is just what it is. I have found that as long as I keep it in check internally, I'm ok.
Do I get excited about small things? Sometimes. I have this internal check list where I go over possibilities. Then, if it doesn't play out the way I had hoped for, I'm ok and not terribly disappointed.
Good to hear Thanksgiving went well.
I did an outstanding job of cooking this year (even if I do say so myself)