Thanks for the pointers Rob, although I can't do much with the haircut thing...LOL. The recent change in my haircut consisted of taking a razor and shaving my head clean! Smoooth! I have given thought to working out, might buy me some weights once I get finances in order - while on vacation I was using the gym in the hotel after everyone went to sleep and found it a good outlet for my frustration etc. Might go and get a tattoo I have been thinking about getting here recently (I have none right now). I have toyed with the idea of dating, but not getting serious or anything and just finding some women friends I can hang out with. Not sure yet if I'll go that route but might give the illusion that I am. Or at least get to the point where I seem so happy where my wife will be wondering what is going on and if I'm dating.
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