Tmite, I can only reply that it's not time to leave. I still have work to do. I see signs of significant progress. This M is a long way up from when it hit bottom. If you were in my shoes, you would have left by now; I choose to stay. Your role on these boards in not to tell people when to leave, or to judge them or their actions, but to support and respect the decisions of those who are trying to Piece their marriages together. If you can't partner with me in my decision to keep working on myself and this marriage, please post elsewhere.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
