Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[newmama]

Jstar,

LRT sounds good in your case! But so would be reading her other book, Getting Through to the Man You Love. It retrains you to not nag or belittle (even if he is totally wrong and you are right) but to praise, be specific in exactly what you want, and praise some more.

So you could try to work on yourself while doing LRT (I know you're pregnant and have a 2 year old) but you could choose one goal like being complimentary. When you have to see him for some type of approved reason, be polite and compliment him.
OH- you can do this to his mom, too! Start complimenting your H when you talk about him and kiss her ass, too!

I know you don't want to, but it might make your husband stop and realize you are changing, something he didn't think could happen. Then maybe he would be willing. This takes a long time and I would use the divorce busting coaches if I were you--it will cost you about $375 for 3 sessions and you have to use all 3 with no refund if you don't. I have my 2nd session on Monday.