I think it depends on what time she's staying out until, Bridge; that's why I asked him. My sons are 13 and 16, and we feel fine staying out until 12:30am or so, but they know where we are and how to reach us if they need be. 12 and 15, with everything else they're going thru, might be a smidge young if she's staying out until 2am, and it's definitely inappropriate if it's later than that, IMHO.