so you comfort your wife after she gets in a fight with her boyfriend... yes it (affair) is happening, just because you choose to ignore it doesn't mean it's not happening. "Sleeping elsewhere" ...
You've been doing this so long you've convinced yourself this is rational. It's sick and twisted. get out of this sham while you still have time to start over. 6-7 years of dancing,yoga, writing, sheep puppy, and self discovery have only succeeded in you learning to rationalize the most extreme disrespect I've seen. twisted...
Sorry, but its the truth. I googled something once upon a time and stumbled on your thread and was simply amazed at how someone could put up with this. It's better then watching a soap opera.