I have a friend I think in mLc
she calls me for support
I hear her story
same as we have heard
she never shoulf have M him
it was never right
there is no going back
he is standing
she hates the sight of him
came on quickly as when I went thru it she was working on her M and was supportive of me
then Boom
OM in picture but its not working out
he is totally unavaialable
it is so weird to go theu it first hand
I encourage her to NOT date but to work on herself
she is very pulled to other men and wants a new R
one thing is for sure
In this sitcuation she is not going back anttime soon and I believe from what I hear she will NOT EVERR return
she says its like a point you cross where youn work so hard in the M and she says she did and I know she has tried in the past
but its gets beyond the point of NO return
I think thats wehat happened to my M too and the OP justs pulls them right out
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow