welcome L Yes we have all heard many of those same lines You are doing well moving forward and still connecting with your H I think it takes them a really long time to really decide they want to eat cake still know wife is there and continue with OW THats what mine did its good he is seeing the kids and the R seems peacful all around so that is great all you can do is watch the MLCer will confuse you, showing signs of liking/hating you I thought so many times my xh would return our R whilke seperated was good we talked many times and he visited many times a week
You continue on your path be kind and supportive and watch more will be revealed later peace
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