she knows you want her,
even though you've kicked her out,
now you have to test her.

She is cake eating, for the longest amount of time, she has had you her husband and her affairs.

Switch it up.

Start working out, start buying new clothing, new shoes, get a different style haircut, start wearing a different cologne, start tanning, start going out more and I'm going to say it, start.... dating. Nothing serious but start going out with other women (I'm not asking you to get married or have sex).