Well...finally made it here. Two years or so later. Like everyone else (I guess) I thought I would be different (get back together). But alas, I am a survivor! I should have moved here a while ago becasue in my mind I have been divorced for a while. It was official yesterday but there was no sting...not even any regrets...just acceptance....page is turned. U.S. Thanksgiving 2009....the day my daughter turned 9 .... the day I am officially single! Well kind of... A friend on these boards suggested that I am healed...I am looking in from outside the wall....I think I am on the wall...looking in....it has been a rough ride at times but the worst is well behind me. So...I am not sure what posting my sitch contributes here other than perhaps showing folks that there is a way out and things do get better. If I can make one person say "hey look at John210...man he was sooo screwed up and if he can get out alive, so can I" well I will be happy.
