I agree with searching4, there are down days. But it is not that WE are or were not good enough. It is THEY that were not good enough...but don't get me started this morning. Just know that there are people out there (ok maybe your last date did not work out as planned) who share your values and will love you for who you are. Feeling rejected is not fun....for anybody. I like to think that XW screwed up royally....as did Dan. Regardless of who they are with...I actually believe it.....But no use feeling sorry for ourselves...you are right there are many things to be thankful for in this beautiful place we call earth...get out there....soak it up....breathe it all in. So what if one screwed up person (for whatever reason) made bad choices....You ARE BBJ, SuperFox. Super MOM, Super WOMAN and one day, one SUPER GUY will be lucky enough to find you on his path....keep your head up and chin out BBJ, DO NOT let one small person bring YOU down! Have a nice weekend!