5. She is trying to wrestle control of this situation again by ignoring the IM and the NC letter.
Sleeping on this I remembered something I had read somewhere. People who are controlling or who try to conrol others geneally have no control in other parts of their lives and generally feel helpless.
I am also considering the possibility that W is being so inconsiderate about my mum purely to hurt me. Not sure, just s thought that is now rattling around my head.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"