Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

I am working on 180's as well as NC. This doesn't seem to be having any effect on her, and her actions. As a matter of fact, I think it gives her space and validation to continue to act in whatever manner she wants. Wait, 180's and NC are for ME right? My W is confrontational, and is so used to getting her way. I always give in, and do things her way most of the time. It's not like I haven't stood up to her, rather, I have basically comprimised with her in order to keep the peace. THIS may be another source of our problems...