I am confused. What am I suppose to be doing at this stage?
So I am to GAL, do 180's, and work on me! I really got to figure out HOW to do this. Should I stop the AOS I have been doing?
He has become a little more secretive. Noticed a pswd on his iPodTouch, recently added in the last week. I did have a very small window of opportunity with his cell and was able to check texts and there were none. Scrolled through partial contact list to look for name of OW and found an entry of the first 3 letters of her name. Maybe its her but reverse lookup confirms its a cell #. I should have looked at the call log but I was nervous and thought he would be wondering what was taking me so long to get the dog's leash. Sure enough, an hour later when I got back from the walk, his cell phone was back on his person. Have not had another chance yet.
Any ideas on trying gather intel? No keyloggers.
Have not had an opportunity to search his vehicle either which is provided by his employer. He uses it both for work and personal use.
Will get around to calling the ph# but need to do it from a payphone (do they even exist anymore?) or somewhere not associated to me.
Tomorrow he is going out with "friends from work" to watch the hockey game. This is new. And he wants to go to the mall tomorrow to get a new pair of jeans. I wonder if he will wear one of his new shirts he recently purchased. Hmmm....
And I am really trying hard not to initiate R talk. As in previous R discussions, H says "I am done trying" so then why the hell are you still sticking around if you don't want to work on it? Part of me REALLY wants to say "Make your move and leave already if you are done trying".
