Blue, thanks. Ya, I think the long-term deal breakers will be hard-if not impossible, to enforce due to distance. However, I firmly believe that the boundary involving OM-if there is one, MUST be set, and adhered to. I WILL NOT SHARE MY WIFE WITH OM-although, I already might be. How do you deal with that? Wow, I am really thinking too hard now. She will have a little over 60 days before I return for good-any suggestions to prep that proverbial battlefield? Thanks so much for your advice.

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