got this in reply

Thank you, I don't want to be so nasty to you but I don't want to feel trapped either. We can talk more about that later. I will be open to listen to you but I do know that I'm done and I don't have any idea what you are holding onto.

Every time she says she's "done" I want to say the most hurtful, damaging things to her. I don't want to hear or see that again. I'm about to lose it and do something vicious in response to that.


~Mark

Me: 38
W: 34
Together: 9yrs
1st M: may '03
1st D: april '08
1st bomb: june '08
remarried: oct '08
2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)