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[bluerain]

You need to be careful about the boundaries that you choose. Dont set boundaries that you arent ready, or cant enforce. If you arent there to lock the deadbolt on her, you cant really tell her if you arent home by 11, dont bother coming home.

If you set boundaries that there are no consequences to breaking, it wont do much for helping her see that she needs to respect you. Certainly while you are there you could say that, but be ready for a tantrum to almost any boundary you set.

I think puppy says make no mistake- there will be wrath.