Wow, Counting Crows... thank you so much! I'm just literally trying to survive this sitch, so if it helps anyone in even a small way I am so grateful for that.
I will have to check out your thread.
I am still struggling with having to set a non-negotiable boundary but as I am letting myself process it and thinking about what I deserve, I know what I need to do.
I wish you all the best in your sitch... you stay strong and true! You will also be ok... no matter what!