Deployed Soldier/Father needs your help

[SoldierDad]

Also, I just want to add that I think it is sad that my W, who is almost 40, is going out to bars, and clubs sowing her wild oats-or whatever it is she is doing. I see women like that all the time, and I feel sorry for them, now MY W is doing something that I despise, and feel empathy for. One of my F friends told me that she is going to get real tired of doing that stuff, but I just don't see it, she has been steadily increasing her time out since Aug. I dunno, maybe I am thinking too much. I think I read somewhere about cake eating, and how once they can't have their cake, they begin to come to their senses-any truth to that? Also, if she is only going to come back to me for what I can "offer", or "give", her, I'm not sure I want someone like that in my life-does that make sense?