Thanks, grr. It's not all peaceful. I had a big hassle with him over the kids today. He texted me yesterday and asked if any of the kids wanted to talk. We were at a friends's house and the kids were all running in the yard, so I texted back that I would tell them he texted when we got home.

We get home, and I put my cell phone on the counter and say dad wants you guys to call. No one did. H gets upset today that I didn't text him and tell him they didn't want to call.

I figured that should have been obvious, and it felt like rubbing it in to say they don't want to call.