Again if your sitch was about you not demonstrating love, I'd say you have other things to do as well)


25 what things should/could I do that would demonstrate love while detaching? Right now we're completely dark but at some pt. will probably have to have some communic.

Following up on this thread from Detaching--ideas on 180's for the LBS who was withholding during the R? balance between pursuing and the 180 of showing love?


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process