Can I save my marriage?

[praying_in_GA]

Well said Gnosis!!

I agree with the 'keep your mouth shut' when it comes to officers. There are too many things police officers (even the good ones) can do to make your life hell. I am not saying he IS doing something, but he COULD and get away with it easier than you think.

I know you have the strength to do this. I know how much you love him and you think these games are stupid. They are not games, they are a lifestyle choice. It took me less than a week to realize that but when I did it was like WOW. If he really is done with you and he walks further away then you have taken steps to be happy and healthy without him. If not, you will be a better person with him.