Not sure what to do

[sandi2]

We get censored if we try to put information about certain web sites. Don't really know why, but it is part of the policy.

I'm tempted to do it now as she will be in for a shock when she has to pay half. I'm on two minds whether I do this as it may push her further away.

I think shock is good for a WAW. But, be careful that you do not do something that would not be in your best interest just in order to shock her.

That is why it is good for the WAW to see her LBH having a life, going out and enjoying being single again. She doesn't see him crying all over her and begging her to come back. Instead of seeing the man she was turned off by...she is seeing a sexy, strong, confident man who has a wonderful personality and seems happy. He doesn't appear to be mourning over her at all! Now, that shocks her b/c she was not expecting that.....and it triggers some jealousy.

Shock and loss.....those are the two things that they pay attention to. She needs to realize her loss if she D you. Being the man that I have described above is the first step in causing her to realize she'll be losing that man if she gets a D. Then the financial begins to hit her.

If you have kids, then go for full custody. That will be another shocker. Settle for nothing less that 50-50.

She needs to experience missing you.