Ok, I'm back. And I need some advice on exactly what I should be doing. I have gone back to my wife's shop to just talk about little things and have shown good side of me, no negative. Those few times it's gone really well. I even told her the other day"if I don't see you before you leave have a nice Thanksgiving". I think I shocked her. She seemed to avoid me right before she left like we were getting along too well and she didn't want that. So should I try to stay away from her completely unless she comes to me? I don't want ro screw up. I'm probably wrong but it just seems by leaving her alone I'll be easier to forget about.