I haven't chimed in before, but I thought I would here. I'm really sorry you received that paperwork the day before Thanksgiving.

My W told me back on Oct. 22 that she'd be "filing soon" and every day I wonder if today is the day. In fact, I got a call from the front desk at work that there was someone downstairs to see me and I refused to go down until I got a name.

All my friends tell me I'm doing great yet I'm still scared of the start of the actual process.

Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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