We're really going far afield from DanceQueen's original thesis, but just so we're all clear, SSMGuy says his wife knows he's going outside the marriage for sex, but that she "tacitly approves by not wanting to know."
That's why I asked in the other thread whether she has actually told him that she "doesn't want to know" about his other sexual partners, or whether that's something he assumes she must think because she did this or that.
