Sandi's Place

[ClingingToHope]

That's great news on your daughter. I haven't read your entire story, but I've seen you boil it down in posts.

I'm feeling very stuck in limboland. I don't see any movement or change at all in my W. It has only been since Oct. 6 that I forced an R talk and she hasn't mentioned D since Oct. 22 though she did send an email on Nov. 2 asking for the list of local lawyers who do collaborative divorce.

Did you ever actually file? If not, did you ever get to the brink of filing and then pull back? If so, why?

I guess I'm wondering if the fact she hasn't filed when she said she was going to soon on Oct. 22 is a good thing or is it too early to read anything into that?

Did your H ever date while you were in WAW mode? I've gone out in groups with a lady who I might be interested in if W files for D. This lady point blank asked me if I was done and by my answer she could tell that I wasn't so by the end of the night she was giving me dating tips because she doesn't think I'll be dating her.

The attention was a good mood booster and took my mind off W. But I'm confused now more than ever.