Hi all-

I have read many references to the "typical" script the WAS plays out.

My WAS started an PA in May; told me he was "done" with our R in August. Not much conversation between us since then. He has moved in with OW, and I am posting here and trying to keep my head and heart together.

Does anyone know a thread that sums up the typical Affair/WAS scenario? It might be of some comfort if I see my WAH doing some "typical" things.

Thank you-


Me: 44
Him: 42
Together: 23 years; never married
Bomb: August 1, 2009
Affair since May 2009
Walk away; no conversation; no process