Thinker, think "touch and go"gestures... A kiss on the neck while she is cooking and then LEAVE the room, a cup of coffee ready, a compliment that is honest, a tender hug on her way out... There is a list in one of the books of the guy that wrote...hm let me remember, I cant, his name starts with an H I think, the one that talks about affairs/marriage builders maybe...? I will find the book, somewhere in the pile... I remember reading the list and thinking some of the things would really work with me and my biggest complaint about my H is/was lack of affection. K
