It's a tricy one cause we normally have Christmas lunch with her family and dinner with mine.
I went and saw the councillor yesterday. The one she used to drop the bomb. I explained the things that went wrong. She could understand why things went wrong considering everything we had been through over the last 2 years and she gave me some advice. One of the things she said that I shouldn't give up, but at the same time, I should do things that I enjoy to help me during this period. She was surprised that not one person from her family had called me to see how I was doing.
She also said it might be worthwhile for my sister to text her to let her know that she is there if she wants to talk. This way it keeps communication open if she has second thoughts and can't speak to me. My sister said she'll do it, but she doesn't want W to think that she approves with what she is doing.
The councillor also gave me alot of reading material about dealing with seperation, kids, finances etc.
She was pro marriage which was good, and she asked if w would go in to speak to her and I. I said probably not right now.
She also asked if w had someone else cause of all the work travel and nights in the city. I said no, cause I asked w and she swore on our son there was no one else. Not even an EA.
