I will need the help of some strong, experienced DB'ers here...
GOALS:
Long Term:
-- Happy, stress-free life w/love in abundance (hopefully w/my husband)
2-Month (14-Year Anniversary is 1/20/2010:
-- Summon-up the courage to find proof if there is an affair. (I've snooped a bit, w/nothing leading that way, but... I'm not naive either.) (Will need help - no idea how.)
-- Build up enough strength to deal with the results, either way.
-- Have a frank, open discussion w/H regarding what I know (if there is something that gets exposed), and/or what I'm willing to live with within our M. (NOT the way it is!)
Immediate:
-- Heal from this stupid pneumonia.
-- Deal w/issues related to my heart arrhythmia (sp?).
-- Have a happy, stress-free holiday season.
-- Re-dedicate myself to a fitness routine. (Like keeps interrupting!)
-- Begin investigation in possibility of H's affair.
-- Smile and wave!
Last edited by mindfull; 11/27/0906:46 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
