Oh yes, I know! I've spent the last two years giving everything I had to him. I put in 150% and get a whole lot of nothing. He has made small steps - he watched the Love & Respect video which he would've never done. We went to our first counseling session on Thursday. He previously sad don't even bother I'm no going.......so those are major steps I don't mean to minimize those but my son and I are still back at my parents now, everything still seems to be about him, what he decides, when, etc. In the meantime, I'm working on myself and continuing the work that needs to be done for me. I don't expect everything to be rainbows but there is more to life than this........why can't I let him go?
