Britt, I am with Steve here. If you don't want to date then don't, but create a scene that makes him wonder! Men like the chase...and they like it even better if there is someone he can race against.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month