Yep, I do know what you mean. When I look at the boundaries like that, makes perfect sense. Well, I am guilty of asking them if their mother is home/out etc. Have since stopped that. I am so looking forward to 2 great weeks with my boys. She has asked me many times where we are going etc. I quickly change the subject, and tell her that we are going to have a blast. If we go on a road trip, should I invite her along? Not sure how much communication i should try to have with her. I am sure she is going to try to start fights, bring up the past etc.

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